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Isn’t life Perched on relationships?

Updated: Mar 2, 2020

By Sparkian Roopa Rani Bussa

Contributing Author for Spark Igniting Minds

Quiet, yet many nimble feelings within the heart and soul finiteness leave a deep impact on the physical and mental well-being of any human. Without any second thought, it’s our relationship with the world and world’s relationship with us that describes our life.

Relationships have a detailed explanation. We can see many types of relationships within our borders. We spot many people in our day to day life. With each one we meet on frequent basis, we create some sort of relationship. It is the same in every individual’s life. If the regular meets and talks have to turn into relationships, it is vital to create some bonding between us. Some clinch of reciprocation with either party is salient. The first and foremost object to the recurring and substantial relationships or friendship is the way of response.

Life gives us so many opportunities to meet people at work, the place you live, the family, friends, co-travelers so on and so forth. Every relationship will start with one simple smile. It may take time to get interactive with the one we meet. Many a times, instincts play a stupendous role in developing bond and power for the future relationships. When we meet same people often, some kind of energy is produced in our thoughts. That would tell us the compatibility with the person and help us to decide if we want to move on to the next level of relationship estimations.

Always remember that your nature and your gesticulations are gratifications to form any relationships. The qualities of good behaviour showers zestful ground for the relationship to flourish. Sweet relationships are crafted in a healthy mode, and when our nature emulates with the person we interact with. It can build profound peace and positive vibes.

The bond with neighbours and neighbourhood, with colleagues and with co-passengers may start with a low and slow pace. Again it marks its standards with your way of reciprocation. Communication plays an outstanding role to build or break relationships. A good relationship has truthful and honest conversations with no ego pouncing in between. Your thoughts move around those people with whom you communicate more in the passing times. Rotation of talks, gestations can estrange the hesitations. Proper communications help you build well versed lifestyle with community. It may help to bring together the scintillating dimensions of your relationships and spread the fragrance towards the happiness of all.

Sometimes we get into wrong relationships and take bad decisions in building relationships, which affects our soul to a great extent. We never know, even between the closest blood relations, we may find encumbrances because of a lack of understanding or an awful ego. There may be the chance of a demoralized thinking that may break the bond, even where it was not supposed to. Certain limitations and one’s patience also needs to be focused on. And we need to put in the best of ourselves. Good relationships get strong only when two people have the same inclination. If that is not found even after many interactions or adjustments it doesn’t add spark to anything at any time in life.

These days, when people think or talk about relationships, it looks as if they are referring only to sexual relationships or relationships between boys and girls, often in the adolescent age. Youngsters probably cannot comprehend the difference between infatuation and relationships. Every boy has a girlfriend and it’s quite common in western culture. The greatest bewilderment is due to adopting different cultures. People sometimes secede with the trendy customs or own customs. Many would not even think of the ill grounds if one is blindly following the trends, especially in the adolescent age.

Mixture of cultural backgrounds is causing turbulence in the kinetic energy of people in life. One great man said ignorance is bliss; it’s absolutely true as many of us grew up, ignorant and innocent until we attain the age that positions maturity. This generation is getting exposed to every unwanted thing even before they attain the age or maturity. We see they are not strong enough to face the challenges. They are not ready to accept and move on with failures. All this is happening because of the lack of good communication in the world. Everyone’s world is different. Most of them we see are not keen in building relationships these days.

Longevity of relationships is withering because of stringent standards of maintaining the bonds. Every parent should take an initiative in this techno world to train their children to mingle with people more than the technologies. These days children have absolutely no knowledge or idea about segregation of relationships or building the relationships.

It’s a universal truth, the human nature is the most beautiful and amazing clay which can be moulded the way we want. It can be kneaded and crafted artistically in the way we want.

So dear people, in this short life that we have, we will knead and mold our nature to build strong relationships with people we meet in and around, leaving ego aside, keeping selfishness beside, by using technology only for requirements, by giving importance to the emotions, not care about defeat and work on worthwhile relationships to form a magnificent world.

About Roopa Rani Bussa

Ms. Roopa Rani Bussa

A Nature lover, Beholder of positive power, believer of social services, passionate teacher and a well organised passionate writer.

Based out of California, USA, she is an HR Professional, now has taken the route of social service by teaching children Telugu, Kannada, and Hindi.

She is a writer of quotes and a poet who expresses herself in multiple languages. Her father is a great influencer in her writing journey.  

Featured Image by Phan Minh Cuong An from Pixabay

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